Yesterday turned out to be one of the most UN-romantic Valentine's Days I have ever had. It's right up there with the one right after SC was born, when I was having trouble feeding her and she wailed if she was put down, and we were both sleep deprived and didn't even NOTICE it was Valentine's Day!
But then, the Man is just not one of your romantic types. I saw this "Curtis" cartoon in the paper yesterday and cracked up

(He once DID get me a can opener for a birthday. And I told him "that's what Ralph Kramden would've given Alice for a present!")
Please don't think that the Man is a cheapskate, or anything like that. He simply doesn't get it.
What does he get me? Guess?
That's right.
BOOKS. Or DVDs. Nowadays mostly DVDs.
And in truth, that's just about ALL he ever gets people. Which is why I took over buying presents for his/our nieces after the first Christmas I spent with his family...........................
I COULD tell him what to get me. I know women who do that. But it's just not ME!!!!
I also keep noticing that the women who get all the lavish gifts on Valentine's Day more often than not have spouses who do pitifully little to support their wives every other day of the year.
So shake your head if you want to because I didn't have a "romantic" Valentine's Day. Show off your flowers, your chocolates and your fancy jewelry.
But next week, when your chocolates are gone, the flowers are dried up and the jewelry is in the drawer, tell me what your husband does for you the other 364 days of the year.
If it's as much as the Man does for me, you know how lucky I am.
And I DO appreciate it.
Just not on holidays................